How often do we consider the impact our behavior has on others? Some of us may be unaware of the emotional harm we've caused. As people we can be selfish and only see things from our perspective. Our words and behavior can leave deep wounds and at times
tear down and destroy the relationships we value most. It takes discipline to manage our feelings and tame our tounges. There are many passages of scripture that teaches us the importance of self control. Proverbs 16:32, He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty; and he that ruleth his spirit than he that taketh a city. God will make us aware of our behavior, we may think that our outburst are ok and others should tolerate us. When people say we're the problem this is an opportunity to examine our behavior and see if there's some truth to what's being said. Do we have the emotional intelligence to recognize when we are out of control? A person can have great potential but when we lack control of our temper it makes it very difficult to build the right connections & achieve the God given greatness within. Talent is secondary to a good attitude and a controlled spirit. Many people lack control of their emotions and fail to make the connection that they're holding themselves back. Other people aren't responsible for making us feel good nor are they obligated to deal with our unhealthy responses. What message is my attitude sending? That's a question we must ask ourselves. No one deserves to be emotionally abused and we may be more abusive than we know. Proverbs 25: 28, He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls. Are you emotionally broken down? If so, this is your day to be whole. We must first acknowledge that we lack control and take the steps to regain it. For some of us it may require professional help. And for others not losing those they love may be enough to spark a change within. I'm a person who likes to write, it's something I've done all my life. Writing may be an eye opener for you as well, to really understand the state of your emotions. It's a great way for me to honestly work through my issues. Within each of us we know how to behave but when our misbehavior isn't challenged and goes unchecked we begin to believe that it's ok. God is concerned about our willingness to live a life of self control. It says so much about our character. We aren't required to be perfect but we are to respect those we interact with. 1Peter 2:17, Honour all men. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honour the king. I've made it a habit to be aware of how I treat people. God is always watching and listening, life is hard enough. Don't add to people's pain, be as kind as possible. When necessary simply walk away quietly. Thank you so much for reading today's blog post, I hope it inspires you to live a life of emotional control. And never forget, we are unstuck, and we are free!
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