Knowing when to Disconnect

Relationships play a huge role in our lives, sometimes we cling to them knowing they no longer benefit us. How do you know when it's time to walk away from a friend, business connection or even a marriage?

I am by no means a professional counselor. Therefore all of my ideas are simply based from my life experiences. When I think of connections that I walked away from or in some cases God ended, there are certain things that stand out in my mind. Even as I write this post there are still some lingering links that I need to sever. Not because these people are bad but because the connection is draining. It isn't one that adds to my life, it takes more away than it gives. Being tied to someone drains who you, is a sure sign it's time to disconnect. Life is about growth and should we find ourselves with people in our immediate circle who are ok with not growing, we must take a close look at how that affects us. Are we stagnant because we are surrounded by stagnation? Therefore we are simply producing what we are constantly in contact with. I believe that life and God has a way of lovingly ending those connections that no longer serve us, now we can choose not to follow suit. But we will live with the results of doing so. Our goal is never to hurt anyone while doing the things that will allow us to grow and expand. Often that means ending a relationship, which can be hard. While being necessary. I hope today's post inspires you to know when it's time to disconnect. We are unstuck and we are free!